It's amazing to me how many people go on these sites. There are soooooooo many of them and yet each one claims to have "the most people signing up everyday" or the most members in general. But really, it's the same people on each site, you could find the same person on 3 sites easily. Some sites even say how they aren't dating, but just for making new friends. HA. Come on. Really? Nobody truly is only looking for new friends. Human beings are curious by nature. A site that promotes dating and friendship or some form of relations is a curiosity to those who aren't happy in their personal relations with people in the real world. Don't get me wrong, it's tough. I mean the bar scene and clubs are absolutely retarded with people who are self absorbed and self centered. Granted, I'm in Southern California, so I can only speak from experience down here. And I'm not saying that everyone in those scenes are stuck up and selfish, no not at all. But most of them are. There's a select few that aren't... but they disappear in a crowd easily and are most likely sick of the scene as well. So where do these people go? No where. They keep going to the same place, but use the internet sites to help them in their pursuit. I can't blame them really. It's very unobtrusive. It's a great idea for the most part. The awkwardness in person is almost unbearable, plus there's the whole crowd of people that surround you in a club or bar, and it's usually too loud to even say anything to anyone. Most of the time you sit there nodding and smiling and laughing to something you can't even hear. But they look like a nice person and you, being the nice person as well, just go along with it. The sad thing is that the internet sites don't filter the scum out. In the public scenes you can filter them out just by looking at them, most of the time, if you're a good judge of character. But on dating sites, not so much. Women don't even have to respond if they don't want to, and guys are able to be more perverted online then in person. Nothing to hide online, plus, you'll never meet the person anyways, so what's it matter? hahah. I'm not one of those guys. I wouldn't start ranting about this stuff if I was. I'm not that strategic and/or manipulative in my writing as to go as far as to portray something I'm not. That's just stupid. I have nothing to hide.
The pictures are also funny to me. I notice a lot of women with their heads tilted to their left and also a lot of pictures from an odd angle above their head looking down. Plus there's almost always a cleavage shot. Don't misunderstand me here, I love boobs just as much as the next guy, if not more. But honestly? What are you trying to portray here? Okay... nice boobs, got it. What does that say about your personality though? Does this mean you're easy or that you're just proud of what god gave ya? Then I see the complaints that women put up about how "I'm not a one night stand girl so stop asking". Really?? Guys actually ask that? Come on men, have a little dignity, seriously. How pathetic is it when a guy has to email a girl who he doesn't even know on some website that he only saw in an add from myspace, to have sex with him for one night, hopefully tonight...? For real? I'm blown away by the audacity that some guys have to be that forward. Does that actually work for them? Do women actually agree to something so insane and rude? If they do, I'm glad I haven't met them. Imagine how messed up their personal life is that they feel the only kind of affection they could get is from a total stranger that they only exchanged emails and text messages with twice... and that was only to find out where to go and what time.
Wow.
To everyone else that is actually trying on those sites. Good luck. I've "heard" of people having success on there. The whole thing is quite humorous to me. I'm not hating on anyone that is actually giving it a shot. I can't blame you actually. I totally understand how "the scenes" are lame and quite fake.
I guess the way of the future is changing. No longer will people say "oh, we met through a friend" or "at a party" or "a bar". Nope. Now it'll be "Oh we met on eHarmony" or "Plenty Of Fish" or "Match.com".
Good times indeed. hahahaha.
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